I see all over the internet people posting quotes about not caring what people think & blah blah blah.
I used to be one of those people that believed all that hype. Then i started reading books about the mind & how it works & it got me really thinking about that statement.
It’s our human nature to care what people think we can’t help it. No matter how many times you say it to yourself or post it on your social media deep down & you really believe that subconsciously you do care what people think.
I don’t think you should care what everyone thinks but you should care what some people think.
If I’ve learned anything it’s that at any stage of your life people will have opinions about it & they will tell you there opinions weather you want to hear it or not.
What i do is let them say there opinions (cuz they will anyway) & then do what i want to do anyway.
For example my mother in law had a lot of opinions about the hospital i gave birth specially the doctors.
It wasn’t the ideal delivery (what delivery is?) & my daughter wound up coming out blue which ended up with her being in the NICU for a few days. My water broke before my cervix was dilated, I wound up getting an infection & was in labor for over 30 hours.
It was a natural birth & my mother in law thought the doctors shouldn’t of waited that long & i should have had a c section. Do i agree with her? Yea a little bit but i can’t change the past & now my daughter & I are both recovered & healthy which is all that matters.
She went on to tell me to change doctors & blah blah blah.
I cared about what she had to say. I respect her, she has 4 kids so she does kinda know what she’s talking about so i let her say what she had to say.
At the end of the day I’m still going to do what i think is right for me & my family no matter what.
Do i care what some people think? Absolutely I want to hear people what people think. People i have respect for at least.
That doesn’t mean i care about what everyone thinks. Especially internet trolls who have nothing better to do then comment negative shit on people pictures.
At the end of the day saying i don’t care what anyone thinks is a lie.