Life as we know it

Boundaries are neccessary for your sanity

You can be kind, love someone & support them but you can’t say yes to every single request.

Learning to say no without apologizing or making an excuse is so hard for me to this day but as I work on it, it’s so necessary for my sanity.

You don’t have to go to every party or event to still love & support people.

If someone makes you feel bad for going to the 27 events or parties that they are having & then for missing the next 1 or 2 then they aren’t people you want in your life.

Boundaries are healthy & you’re not a bad person for saying no & doing what’s best for you.

Do you struggle with boundaries?

Mom Life

I complain about my daughter & that’s ok

I love my daughter more than anything or anyone in this world & I would do anything for her. But that doesn’t mean there are days when she’s being a complete asshole & i don’t like her for a little bit. I always love her even when i don’t like her.

Kids can be the cutest things in the entire world but they can also be little demon kids that make your life a living hell.

Just because you complain about your kid doesn’t mean you are a bad parent. I think it makes you real because anyone that is a parent knows it’s not all rainbows & sunshine when it comes to raising these little humans.

I say a lot of good things about my daughter but i don’t leave out the bad things cuz she’s not a perfect kid & I’m not a perfect parent. I can live with that.

Are you a parent that complains about your kids?

Life as we know it

“I don’t care what people think” is a lie

I see all over the internet people posting quotes about not caring what people think & blah blah blah.

I used to be one of those people that believed all that hype. Then i started reading books about the mind & how it works & it got me really thinking about that statement.

It’s our human nature to care what people think we can’t help it. No matter how many times you say it to yourself or post it on your social media deep down & you really believe that subconsciously you do care what people think.

I don’t think you should care what everyone thinks but you should care what some people think.

If I’ve learned anything it’s that at any stage of your life people will have opinions about it & they will tell you there opinions weather you want to hear it or not.

What i do is let them say there opinions (cuz they will anyway) & then do what i want to do anyway.

For example my mother in law had a lot of opinions about the hospital i gave birth specially the doctors.

It wasn’t the ideal delivery (what delivery is?) & my daughter wound up coming out blue which ended up with her being in the NICU for a few days. My water broke before my cervix was dilated, I wound up getting an infection & was in labor for over 30 hours.

It was a natural birth & my mother in law thought the doctors shouldn’t of waited that long & i should have had a c section. Do i agree with her? Yea a little bit but i can’t change the past & now my daughter & I are both recovered & healthy which is all that matters.

She went on to tell me to change doctors & blah blah blah.

I cared about what she had to say. I respect her, she has 4 kids so she does kinda know what she’s talking about so i let her say what she had to say.

At the end of the day I’m still going to do what i think is right for me & my family no matter what.

Do i care what some people think? Absolutely I want to hear people what people think. People i have respect for at least.

That doesn’t mean i care about what everyone thinks. Especially internet trolls who have nothing better to do then comment negative shit on people pictures.

At the end of the day saying i don’t care what anyone thinks is a lie.


”I know of no single formula for success. But over the years I have observed that some attributes of leadership are universal & are often about finding ways of encouraging people to combine their efforts, their talents, their insights, their enthusiasm, and their inspiration to work together.”-Queen Elizabeth II

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